It's February: the most romantic month of the year. Hence, renaming it Februromantary, because it is as accurate as it is catchy. Before I continue, I'd just like to say thank you for all the kind words to me and my family regarding my sister's passing. It was a difficult time, but we're coping. Thanks … Continue reading Februromantary


On Sunday 19th January 2020, my oldest sister Lavasa passed away. She was 49. It was out of the blue and came as quite a shock. My immediate thoughts went to my parents (particularly my mum) and my nephew (her son). For the next few days they were my priority. Doing anything I could to … Continue reading Grief


Good news everyone- yer gurl is getting feelings again. I am no longer an emotionless robot. It is terrifying. One of my favourite quotes is from Chuck Palahniuk's book "Choke": "Love is bullshit. Emotion is bullshit. I am a rock. A jerk. I'm an uncaring asshole and proud of it. What would Jesus not do?" … Continue reading Feelings